Parental Hopes and... 家长的希望和个人理想

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All parents hope their children will have a bright future. However, parents’ expectations for their children are not always in accordance with their children’s personal ideals, and sometimes they are even conflicting with each other. This is often a main cause for quarrels and gaps between parents and children. But what lead to the conflict between parental hopes and personal ideals?

The following three factors contribute to the conflict. First of all, in this fast-changing society, parents and children have too many differences in mind. Secondly, traditional patriarchy is still influencing Chinese parents in modern society. They are used to making decisions for their children. Third, nowadays young people have strong independence, who want to plan their own future and control their own destiny. Thus the conflict between parents and children inevitably appear.

In order to solve the conflict, both parents and children should pay their efforts. For one thing, parents should give their children rights to make their own decisions. They may help their children make choices instead of replacing them to make choices. For another, children should learn to respect their parents’ advices since parents tend to have more life experience. Besides, to communicate with each other actively is necessary to their understanding each other. As long as both parents and children learn to think from the other side’s point of view, the conflicts between them can be avoided.

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所有的父母都希望他们的孩子能有一个光明的未来。然而,父母对子女的期望并不总是与他们的个人理想相同,有时甚至互相矛盾。这往往是父母和孩子之间的争吵和差距的一个主要原因。但是什么导致父母的希望和个人理想之间的冲突?

以下三个因素造成的冲突。首先,在这个瞬息万变的社会,家长和孩子心里有太多的分歧。其次,传统的父权制仍然是影响在现代社会中的父母。他们常常为他们的孩子做决定。第三,现在的年轻人有很强的独立性,谁想自己的未来计划和控制自己的命运。因此,父母和孩子之间的冲突不可避免地出现。

为了解决冲突,父母和孩子应该付出他们的努力。首先,父母应该给子女的权利作出自己的决定。他们可以帮助孩子做,而不是取代他们作出的选择。另一方面,孩子们应该学会尊重父母的意见因为家长往往有更多的生活经验。此外,互相交流积极理解对方是必要的。只要家长和孩子学会从对方的角度来看,他们之间的冲突是可以避免的。

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