Parents making ...父母决定他们的孩子

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In morden society,traditonal patriarchy is still influencing Chinese parents.They tend to make almost all decisions for their children,from choosing school to picking up a profession and to deciding whom they are to marry.Sometimes even those detail things such as clothing and daily timetables have to be decided by parents.However,deciding everthing for children does not help them but harm them in many ways.

On the one hand,it will make children lack independence and initiative,which is unfavourable to their development in the long run.On the other hand,in many cases parents' decisions are not always in accordance with children' personal ideas and interests,this will make children form resistence and naturely influence their growth.

From my piont of view,it is unwise for parents to make every decision for their children.It is obvious that parents can not accompany their children for ever.To grow to be indepent is a nature way for everbody.Therefore, in my opinion parents should give their children chances to make their own decisions .They may help their children make choices instead of replacing them to make choices.

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在现代社会,传统的父权制仍然是影响中国的父母。他们会为他们的孩子做几乎所有的决定,从选择学校接一个职业,决定谁是嫁给。甚至那些细节的东西,如衣服和日常时间表已确定的父母。然而,决定一切的孩子不帮助他们,但在许多方面伤害他们。

一方面,它会使孩子缺乏独立性和主动性,从长远来看是不利于他们的发展。另一方面,在许多情况下,父母的决定并不总是与儿童的个人想法和利益相一致,这会使孩子形成性和自然生长的影响。

从我的观点,这是让家长为孩子做出的每一个决定都是不明智的。很明显,父母不能陪伴孩子一生。成长成为独立是一种自然方式一样。因此,我认为父母应该给孩子自己做决定的机会。他们可以帮助他们的孩子而不是取代他们作出的选择。

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